Will you finally break that generational curse ?

Generational curse.

You look like your mummy . You look like you daddy . When you look like none of them , you have an aunty or uncle  everyone tells you , you took their whole face height or features from . Did you ask for this features ? ,  NO .

It doesn’t matter if you like your lip or not . If you wish you nose was bigger or smaller , it’s passed down . You don’t first realize your features but as you grow everyone starts telling you .

Same goes for generational curses . Everyone starts telling you . From a wee little child .

Questions

1. People are passing wealth, yatch , houses , multi dollar business down and you’re being passed what problems that aren’t even yours. What does it mean ?

2. What does it mean to be born into generational problems ?

3. What does it mean to be the next in line ?. The pressure and all eyes on you , as everyone waits for you to either come out of it or fail like the last generation.

4. Why hadn’t the previous generations come out of it ?

Lets start with classification.Being born into this kind of family means two things.

TYPE 1 : The investors .

This type of family do everything in their power to put you in the best positions . They give you what they were never given .A better education than they were put through, meals in your belly and books on your table .

TYPE 2 . The Miserables

This type of family are so content with this situation at hand , they would drag anyone in the family who tries to make it to the top down with them . They’ve made peace with the situation and anyone who tries to make it to the top is seen as downgrading others . And you can’t be seen looking down on your elders by going up . It’s been done for years and you must follow through with it .

Now while these 2 types seem entirely different, there’s a similarity PROJECTION.

For TYPE 1 : The moment a child is born , their whole life is mapped out in front of them . What school to attend , what friends to put around them , a certain way to talk , a certain way to walk , certain languages to speak , certain subjects to like , certain friends around them and all expenses needed to be spent. Soon everyone forgets that this child who is 5 years old and nods their head to every command will grow up to be an adult with their own thought process and decisions. Scrap that they don’t forget , they don’t want you to make your decisions because a part of them is projecting whatever happened with their life on you . So they pick that up and want to live voraciously through you . They say it’s for the best and that they know better, they’ve lived life before  and it’s better if you go to school and study only this course because if they had parents like themselves they would have been better.

But recently I have come to realize that no matter the situation if you have a dream , you would achieve it . But they go on to make excuses and now you’re their second chance at that dream.

For TYPE 2 : This case is worse tho . Guidians never saw good in themselves and they are content with it . Content with blaming this or that. Since they didn’t see good with themselves, how is it that a whole human being who came out of them and is a part of their flesh and blood can achieve good and besides the bottom and lesser part of life is okay to them so what are you trying to do climbing up . They believe there’s evil in money and spend their whole life convincing themselves on that and soon they do everything to sabotage the little effort or dreams that their children may have .

And now you’re all alone . Fighting the mentality first before fighting for a better future . It’s hard . It’s so hard .

How to break it?

I used to be angry at the word destiny. Because in fact I believed that the kind of parents you are born to determines the half quota of your life . Determines what is made up in your mind and what kind of dreams you have and if it’s possible to achieve them . Your environment is a big product of who you are.

I infact also believe that both TYPE 1&2 can definitely make it .

Firstly no , it’s not your fault all what happened in the past . So any time you make mistakes and they attribute it to ‘Do you want to be like your Dad , mom , aunty or any family members’ . No . You don’t want to be like them but you also don’t want to walk on egg shells all through your life . No decision making skill / Nothing. Just programmed to Do whatever and whenever .

You gon work hard , but you’ll be happy you choose to walk your path .

If you have a dream , let nothing not even the projection come in between you and your dream . Theres a way , there’s always a way . Look for the way and navigate it . Lastly please do not fall into a loop while trying to avoid these situations.

Make smart decisions. Remember the goal is not to become deviant but a better version of how you see yourself. Remember you’re here as an individual not as a broken disc that replays everyone’s problem in their life again .

XOXO